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5 months left

In choosing a partner, how important are looks?

Important

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Not so important

8

Important

5 Comments
Tina Bouthillier
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Tina Bouthillier

They don't have to be GREAT looking but I do need to be at least a little attracted to them in the 1st place.

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HANNAH RAAD (STU)
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HANNAH RAAD (STU)

I mean, everybody has a type. THAT person popped out at them. There should be no problem accepting that. Beauty fleets, but you have to be attracted with them in the first place, dont' you? If you aren't attracted to them, then you can't notice them in the first place.

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Phil Soinski
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Phil Soinski

I feel that person who cares enough about their inside person should at least strive a bit for their outside as they are both important in the long run even into old age.

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David May
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David May

I can truly say I never thought looks were all that important. The personality makes the difference. However, my best friend always said that when it came to who I dated, they were always more beautiful than the one before.

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Not so important

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Lrac Snave
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Lrac Snave

Look for a companion you want to grow old with. Beauty is fleeting, at best.

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Linda Tansey
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Linda Tansey

like judge judy said beauty fades dumb is forever

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Maureen Hannon
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Maureen Hannon

Many "good looking" people are jerks. Time waits for NOONE! Everyone's appearance changes. It's SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANAT to be with someone who you respect and have enough in common with that you can grow together with time.

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Cheryl Gafner
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Cheryl Gafner

A sense of humor, and sweetness is what I look for, oh, and you have to love your mom!

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Abby Normal
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Abby Normal

Looks can be altered through age, surgery makeup and other stuff. Your views and opinions change as information is gathered and lost. Your personality stays pretty much the same no matter what your age.

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Lisa Gray
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Lisa Gray

Very important when I was younger, but with age comes wisdom...

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Shane Hill
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Shane Hill

It does not matter how they look like on the out side the only thing that matters is what on the inside that really matters the most.

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seaweed349
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seaweed349

I think we all know that what is inside a person is the most important. It doesn't hurt to be good-looking, but some of the biggest jerks are handsome or beautiful. Often they depend on their looks to get them by.

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Do you pay someone to maintain your house/apartment and/or yard?

Do you pay someone to maintain your house/apartment and/or yard?

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No

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Yes

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Do you love unconditionally?

Do you love unconditionally?

Yes

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No

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Yes

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