Replied "Homeless causes: losing a job during a recession, bankrupt due to medical expenses, husband leaves wife & kids. Show me 5 people who have chosen to be homeless. I've been close more than once."
Commented "We were in love, engaged, living together 3.5 yrs, but I just couldn't take that final step. His new job provided health ins, & joint tax return would increase our yield. Married for love & money. "