Replied "Allowed space prohibited me from saying that in my post, but I feel that it should be up to the server as to how to split it. If he/she doesn't take care of the others, they won't help in the future."
Commented "A 'living wage' negates, at least in part, the need for tips. When I tip a server for THEIR personal service to my party. They can split that with others if they wish but many restaurants mandate it. "