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Dear Abby Asked by Dear Abby
8/30/2021

Is it OK to be fashionably late to a Zoom party?

16%
Yes

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84%
No WINNER

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16%
Yes

4 Comments
Gina Hames
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Gina Hames

Hopefully if this is a party, the guests are your friends and will understand possible tech issues, last minute kid issues, etc. It is a party, relax!

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Shelley Green
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Shelley Green

My zooms are usually late. I'm always on time or early.

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Tina Bouthillier
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Tina Bouthillier

I don't "zoom" but anytime is ok to be FASHIONABLY late, right? lol

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Gina Hames
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Gina Hames

Hopefully if this is a party, the guests are your friends and will understand possible tech issues, last minute kid issues, etc. It is a party, relax!

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84%
No

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Carole Shepherd
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Carole Shepherd

No. Be on time for wherever you are expected to be. Keeping people waiting is rude.

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

On time is the right time.

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Robert Davidson
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Robert Davidson

I want to be on time for everything except my own funeral.

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Jane
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Jane

No. I don’t appreciate tardiness for any reason so I’m almost never tardy.

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Mary Claus
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Mary Claus

Everyone's time is important and we should respect it. Set an alarm and be on time!

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hale1730
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hale1730

Being late for anything is never OK.

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Elizabeth Holden
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Elizabeth Holden

Zoom has to be set up and arranged in a specific timeframe: who wants to stare at an empty screen?

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Kaitlin Mills
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Kaitlin Mills

you should never be late unless there is a problem

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Bertha Goggin
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Bertha Goggin

If you are given a time to start, then that means it is time to start. If it is a VERY informal party, you should still be no more than 5 minutes late.

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Nancy Cohn Peled
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Nancy Cohn Peled

Never cool to keep people waiting. In fact being late is a feature of passive aggressiveness. If you anticipate issues that might delay you, then start earlier.

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Lrac Snave
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Lrac Snave

Early is on time. On time is late. Late is unforgivable.

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Does Labor Day mean a cookout or a beach day?
Dear Abby Asked by Dear Abby
1 year left

Does Labor Day mean a cookout or a beach day?

Cookout

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Beach day

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Cookout

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Beach day

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Do you work best in silence or with background noise?
Dear Abby Asked by Dear Abby
12 months left

Do you work best in silence or with background noise?

In silence

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With background noise

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In silence

1 Comment
Lisa Gray
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Lisa Gray

I really have trouble with background noise. Including music. If I try to play music, it doesn't take long for me to get agitated and turn it off.

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With background noise

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

As a retired teacher, I spent most of my work life getting things done with plenty of noisy activity all around. You have to focus!

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