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Dear Abby Asked by Dear Abby
3/8/2021

Are your vacations planned or spontaneous?

86%
Planned in advance WINNER

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14%
Spur of the moment

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86%
Planned in advance

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Carole Shepherd
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Carole Shepherd

Planned. I'm a big time planner. Have to make reservations, save up money, etc. etc.

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Laurie Gibson
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Laurie Gibson

Gotta make arangements for my pups

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Robert Davidson
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Robert Davidson

If you want to be sure that something will be available you need to book in advance. You should also leave some room for spur of the moment things.

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Stephanie Sarnoff
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Stephanie Sarnoff

If you meant, did we book a room and transport before going, yes, we're "planned". But I would LOVE to just hop on a plane, train, or jump in the car and.........GO !

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Robin Cassidy RN
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Robin Cassidy RN

It do plan it but being single I probably could start being a bit more spontaneous.

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Tina Bouthillier
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Tina Bouthillier

With my crazy schedule, I have to

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Jane
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Jane

VCations need to be planned in advance for most of us. People depend on us to accomplish certain things. Have to prepare.

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Craig Fisher
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Craig Fisher

Because I have to make sure I have enough of my medication in advance of leaving. I also find I can get better rates for lodging and airfare by purchasing far in advance.

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Ba Doing
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Ba Doing

I don't get paid vacations as I am hourly - part time. I have to request at least 2 wks prior and have to save up to cover the expense of missing time off from work.

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Linda Jeffcoat Amick
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Linda Jeffcoat Amick

As an elderly lady who travels mainly accompanied with daughter, I need to be sure I have medications and she needs to get off work.

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Patricia Lake Woodhull
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Patricia Lake Woodhull

We took one unplanned vacation which put us in Boston the evening of 9/11. A very scary time to be away from home.

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

At the moment we are contemplating whether we must undo our mostly completed plans to go to Europe in May. In general planning is half the fun. Curse you corona virus!

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Valerie Lantz
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Valerie Lantz

I'm a planner for many parts of my life, including vacations.

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Joyce Koch
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Joyce Koch

I need to make all the plans in advance so I can request time off at my job,

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14%
Spur of the moment

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D May
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D May

I usually decided the day before I leave. So much of my life is planned that this is one of the few times that I can just be gone. Nobody knows whether I am in town or out of state. I love it!

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Augusta von Nassau
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Augusta von Nassau

Vacations? What are those??

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Courtney Grant
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Courtney Grant

My families is spur of the moment. That is because with 3 kids 4,3,and 1 if we make big plans majority of the time something comes up or it doesn't go as planned.

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delillah wagner
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delillah wagner

im just so bussy i cant plan them

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Do you have jewelry bearing your birthstone?
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12 months left

Do you have jewelry bearing your birthstone?

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No

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Yes

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No

5 Comments
Elizabeth Cornish
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Elizabeth Cornish

I wish I did but a good quality emerald is so expensive. Yes, there are "created" emeralds, but unlike diamonds which look great, the created emeralds do not.

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Elizabeth Cornish
Elizabeth Cornish

To continue my story (this is 3/3), I was very envious when one of my best friends got faux emeralds for her birthday and wore them first. However, I was happy to wear mine anyway. My friends bulled me because I was a "copycat" even tho they all knew I had received mine first. #meangirls!

Elizabeth Cornish
Elizabeth Cornish

My parents got me faux emeralds as my first pair of pierced earings and I looked at them in the box until my mom could find the "self-piercing" rings that slowly worked into your ear over a couple of weeks. When I proudly wore my birthstone earings to school my best friends bullied.

Elizabeth Cornish
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Elizabeth Cornish

I wish I did but a good quality emerald is so expensive. Yes, there are "created" emeralds, but unlike diamonds which look great, the created emeralds do not.

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Lisa Gray
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Lisa Gray

My birthstone is Amethyst. I like it. I like the color. But one, I prefer Emeralds. And two, I don't wear jewelry anymore.

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Lisa Gray
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Lisa Gray

My birthstone is Amethyst. I like it. I like the color. But one, I prefer Emeralds. And two, I don't wear jewelry anymore.

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

No, I have no rubies, and I wept mock tears for my husband's benefit answering this.

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