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Anonymous Asked by Anonymous
6/14/2021

Would you tell a friend if you knew their spouse was cheating?

77%
Yes WINNER

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23%
No

12

77%
Yes

28 Comments
Angela Lee
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Angela Lee

I've been cheated on, and later found out that 2 of my friends knew about it. I was extremely hurt by the fact that they didn't tell me. I would rather a friend be upset with me for telling them about it, instead of feeling betrayed because I knew, and didn't tell.

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LP Simmons
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LP Simmons

A VERY CLOSE FRIEND.. DROPPING A DIME. NO PROBLEM

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Melissa Spears
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Melissa Spears

Because I would want someone to tell me if my husband was cheating

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Michelle Harlin
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Michelle Harlin

I would want a friend to tell me, if they knew for fact, that my husband was cheating. A friend looks out for a friend and a foundation for friendship is being honest, no matter how how harsh the truth is.

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Lane Costilow
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Lane Costilow

Yes, if I KNEW it, not just guessed. I'd probably talk to the cheater first and make sure I saw what I thot I saw.

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Tina Bouthillier
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Tina Bouthillier

If you don't, then how can you possibly call yourself a FRIEND?

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Carole Shepherd
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Carole Shepherd

If the person being cheated on was a family member or close friend, I'd tell them. Not sure if they'd be glad or pissed at me, but I'd have to let them know.

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Augusta von Nassau
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Augusta von Nassau

I was cheated on and it would have been good to know, rather than to be totally stunned.

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cecilia delong
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cecilia delong

Yes. I'd want to know, and I'd hope a friend would tell me.

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D May
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D May

I found out I was being cheated on. I immediately went for an HIV test which came back negative. A friend, same situation, came back positive. Yes, I would tell! Lives are at stake.

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Melodi D
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Melodi D

All depending on how close of a friend.

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Donna Frey
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Donna Frey

I would, even if i lost that friend, because i would want to know if it was happening to me.

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Amanda Hill
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Amanda Hill

I'd want to know if the situation was reversed. I'd feel hurt & betrayed if it was me getting cheated on & no one told me and I couldn't do that to my friend. Its just wrong in every way.

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Courtney Grant
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Courtney Grant

Noone deserves to be putting their all into a relationship,while their so is cheating. I would want someone to tell me if I was getting cheated on.

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Jane
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Jane

They need to know. I would absolutely tell!

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Lynn Bowen
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Lynn Bowen

I have done this. I would want to be told. My friend was glad i'd told her.

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michael rice
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michael rice

Even if the friend would rather not know (an "ignorance is bliss" approach), the cheating spouse might give the friend an STD or, these days, Covid-19. I'm not really a friend if I say nothing.

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Laurie Gibson
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Laurie Gibson

Not sure how I'd approach it but yes

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Callie Sackett
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Callie Sackett

I would hope someone would do the same for me! Given that I 100% knew they were having an affair. I would be humiliated to find out others knew I was being so disrespected like that and didn't tell me

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Kelly Bragg
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Kelly Bragg

Because I would expect my friends to tell me.

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Joyce Koch
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Joyce Koch

If it was me, I would want to know.

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

i would first approach the cheater and say, "You tell her or I will." And then back it up.

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Robin Painter
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Robin Painter

I would want to know, so I would give the same courtesy to my friend.

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Vickie Lynn
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Vickie Lynn

Because I'm a loyal friend

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Bob Pickett
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Bob Pickett

I would tell the cheater first to make sure it was true.

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Deb Nahay
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Deb Nahay

I feel that everyone should know the truth. Then let them decide what they want to do with the information. They may already know or at least suspect something.

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23%
No

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Mechanic Man
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Mechanic Man

It takes two people to hurt you. The one doing the misdeed; the other to tell you that they did. I could not be "that one." And chances are, they already know. Don't force them to have to make a decision.

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hale1730
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hale1730

I did this once before and when they moved on I was the one that was put on the outs.

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Hollye Jetton Wethington
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Hollye Jetton Wethington

I certainly would want to and perhaps I would find another way of informing them. Past experience, it turned on the informer and cost a friendship. Spouse didn't believe the informer.Terrible situatio

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Vicki Davidson
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Vicki Davidson

I would confront the cheater 1st I have been there and I know how it feels

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Bill Raines
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Bill Raines

Get in the middle of their problems? NO WAY

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Gazzara5
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Gazzara5

He's got a bad temper and he might hurt her or even kill her. I don't want to be responsible for that. MYOB!

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Tom Smith
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Tom Smith

Mind your own business.

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Jackie Jones
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Jackie Jones

It would likely backfire. I feel if I know someone is cheating their partner does as well.

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Amelia Anonymous
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Amelia Anonymous

She wouldn't believe it, and he would deny it. I would end up the bad guy.

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David Downs
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David Downs

Their marriage is none of my business.

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Carl Evans
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Carl Evans

Your business is not my business.

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