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Dear Abby Asked by Dear Abby
3/22/2022

When you get dressed for the day, is it more important to look good or to feel good?

21%
Look good

10

79%
Feel good WINNER

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21%
Look good

10 Comments
Bob Pickett
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Bob Pickett

If I look good I feel good

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Carl Baker
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Carl Baker

Look good...always! Feeling good is what has lead us to people wearing yoga pants, sweats, and baggy jeans. That's an expression of not caring amd being selfish.

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Lois J Mallernee Goldberg
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Lois J Mallernee Goldberg

If you look good to yourself, you will feel better. Looking good is a step towards feeling better.

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David May
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David May

If I dont feel good, I won't feel good. It may be the right Tuxedo for an occasion or shorts to garden or my.clothes to do my art.

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Brian Klein
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Brian Klein

Fashion over function!

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Lisa S
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Lisa S

When I look 'put together', I feel good.

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Valerie Lantz
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Valerie Lantz

I'm retired and grateful to dress for comfort!

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Castle Keeper
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Castle Keeper

You can have both...every single day...Buy clothes that fit and fabrics that stretch are a plus... I don't need to see every roll or wrinkle under your clothes.......

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linda tansey
linda tansey

.marbe prople do not care what you think orf them and do not care for your comments to them or about them they do not want to be a friend with you

Tina Bouthillier
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Tina Bouthillier

NEED to look good for going to work but alot of times don't feel as good as I look

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Shelley Loy
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Shelley Loy

if i am not comfortable, then my mood is going to be affected

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79%
Feel good

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Angela Lee
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Angela Lee

I have multiple chronic pain problems, therefore I'm uncomfortable no matter what, so I dress to me the most comfortable possible.

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Shelley Green
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Shelley Green

I'm not working and with COVID-19, only do errands. Went out to dinner last night & I dressed nicely, (no dunagrees). For myself and for my outward appearance for others.

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Jane
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Jane

Don’t they go hand in hand? I’m going to feel comfortable but look fabulous too.

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Karen Saurer
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Karen Saurer

Definitely in a better mood when my clothes feel comfortable. However, my clothes that feel good also look good (at least to me) or I would never have purchased them.

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Kate Duvall
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Kate Duvall

I'm an etailer, and I work from home full-time. My colleagues have no way of knowing what I'm wearing.

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Marsha D
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Marsha D

Much more important to feel good. If you feel good you will exude confidence, which will make you look good

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Jimmy Lancaster
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Jimmy Lancaster

if I am going to be miserable at my job i want to at least be comfortable.

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Daismism
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Daismism

look good also leads to feel good meaning the finiality is feel good

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linda tansey
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linda tansey

i do not fel the nrrd to imprees people

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Lrac Snave
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Lrac Snave

I am retired and loving it! I no longer dress for other people.

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Hilary
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Hilary

Clothing doesn't truly fit me. I have to try everything on before buying it (or go for acceptable return policy). Even so, I am sensitive to the touch or anthing touching me. So clothing - particularly seams and straps - bother me. I do dress for style, but I prefer to dress for comfort.

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R.S.L. Salazar López
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R.S.L. Salazar López

If you are comfortable beginning the day, the end can't be otherwise.

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

We're retired so there's nobody to impress. When I was teaching I dressed for comfort and utility, but dressed up a bit to put on a professional look on parents' nights.

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Catherine Wood Alexander
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Catherine Wood Alexander

You must feel good to make others feel that way.

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Is it OK to play Christmas music on Thanksgiving?
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Is it OK to play Christmas music on Thanksgiving?

Yes

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No

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Yes

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Do you clean your residence more or less frequently than you used to?
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12 months left

Do you clean your residence more or less frequently than you used to?

More frequently

2

Less frequently

2

More frequently

2 Comments
Lisa Gray
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Lisa Gray

I, myself, less. But I live with my daughter now, in her home, and she is a "clean freak".

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rover6rover
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rover6rover

We have occasional gatherings here, which provides an excuse to clean up more thoroughly than otherwise.

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Less frequently

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Bob Pickett
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Bob Pickett

just myself so less stuff

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Linda Tansey
Linda Tansey

i live alone

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